Degridation of a society

What is it about humanity that makes it all right to call others names just to belittle them.  I have grown up with this problem.  The blacks have their derogatory term and so do the gays.  FAG, I hate the term.  It's actual meaning is a bundle of sticks.  I don't mind people calling me wood as long as they are talking about my nether region but unfortunately they aren't. LOL.  What's worse is that sometimes gays call them selves that.  I think that if we are willing to call ourselves derogatory terms it only gives others license to call us that.  I think that we need to figure out what is appropriate.  I think fairy is the only term besides gay that fits.  LOL.  I don't know about the rest of homosexual society but I live in fear of someone painting derogatory terms on my garage or hurting me physically because of what I am.  It is bad enough that society sees us as perverts and deviants.  We should not bunch our beliefs in with theirs.  Next time that you feel the need to call gays, fags just remember that their is a derogatory term for every race and creed.  How would you feel if people started using them on you.

May your flame burn bright

Gay Guru

I have a dream

"I have a dream."  Martin Luther King Jr, said it best when he saw a world where everyone was created equal.  He saw man, woman, and child of all races and creeds walking down the street holding hands and enjoying one another company without prejudice.  The question is did he fail, or did he not dream big enough?   There has been a lot of debates about gay marriage in the media.  Should the politicians allow it? The question I ask is, should it even be up to the politicians?  Is it really even any of their business? I have one thing to say to those people who have a problem with gay marriage,  Don't marry a gay person.  It's as simple as that.  They say that we will destoy the sanctity of marriage.  I think they are just afraid that will will do a better job than they do.  We are fighting for our right to marry so hard that of course we are going to do our damndest to stay married. I don't even think it's entirely the politicians fault.  If the right wing Conservatives don't want it then it must be bad.  Since when did separation of church and state involve debates about how gay marriage is against God's law.  That doesn't sound like separation it sounds to me like degradation.  If we are going to continue to listen to people like Fred Phelps then where is this country going.  The constitution says We the people, not We the straight people.  I don't recall reading a clause in there that says we have inalienable right but only if your a guy who likes fish.  (Sorry ladies I'm gay that's what I call it.)  Okay well I'll get off my soapbox now and hope that finally Gay's will stop being treated like the plague and be aloud to walk down that isle no matter what gender they are walking to.  Well bye for now.

May your flame burn bright,

Gay Guru

He's to fabulous to be straight

I never thought, hey today I think I will piss my parents off and come out as gay.  Does anybody really think that.  Growing up in a very conservative Mennonite home it wasn't easy.  Not to mention being raised in Hicks ville.  A friend thought that this blog would be fun as well as therapeutic.  I hope that this blog can be a help to the gay people around the globe as well as those poor straight women who seem to be attracted to gay men. 

I can't begin to count how many of my friends who are girls have come up to me and asked, "Do you think my boyfriend is gay?"  I hate to say it but if you need to ask that, darling he probably is.  Gaydar is not an exact science, but come on ladies there are always signs.  I will tell you a few things.
1.  If the man is prettier than you,  He's a MO.
2.  If he gives you any excuse except that he's impotent as to why he doesn't want to have sex, He's either fooling around on you or he's fudge packing.
3.  If all his friends are girls and you get the vibe that you are too.  He's wishing you had a dick.
4.  If you backdoor gets more action than your front.  Go to the nearest porn store, buy a dildo and give it to him.  He may actually think you.  God knows I would.
5.  Finally.  Just because the man doesn't like sports, that doesn't make him gay.  If he only watches sports because he likes the uniforms, darling introduce him to your single gay friend and step back.

I know this can't be easy.  I was engaged to a girl who "hadn't a clue."  Or at least she says she didn't.  If you care for the guy and your own self respect don't try to change him.  If you let him go at least then you can probably stay friends.  If anything you got a new shopping partner who will tell you if those jeans make you look fat.  As I told a friend of mine.  Every girl should have a gay best friend.  Lord knows your boyfriend won't be completely honest, when it comes to how you look.  All he's wanting to do is get laid, that is if you picked one that isn't GAY.... 

It isn't as if you lost a boyfriend, just think of it as you picked a guy who is just To Fabulous to be Straight. 

May your flame burn bright,

Gay Guru